A practitioner’s guide to where your words really go.
Every claim below was read off an official page, not remembered by a chatbot. Policies change often — the verification date matters more than the answer.
“Is AI private?” is the wrong question. The right question is: which tier am I on? The same company, the same model, can treat your words in completely opposite ways depending on which door you walked in through.
There are three tiers, and almost everyone confuses them.
| Tier | Trains on your words? | Safe for client material? |
|---|---|---|
| Consumer apps ChatGPT Free/Plus/Pro, Claude Free/Pro/Max, Gemini app, free Copilot | Yes, by default (you can opt out) | No |
| Business & API the paid API, ChatGPT Enterprise, Claude for Work, Azure, Vertex | No, by default — contractual, not a setting | Yes, with the right agreement |
| Local models running on your own computer | No — the words never leave the room | Yes |
The consumer app and the business tier of the very same product are not the same product.
Anyone who tells you “it’s all the same” is wrong. And anyone who tells you “cloud means exposed” is also wrong.
This is the tier nearly everyone is actually using, and it is the one that disqualifies itself for client work.
| Product | Trains by default? | Human review? | How long kept |
|---|---|---|---|
| ChatGPT Free/Plus/Pro | Yes — opt out in Settings → Data Controls | Yes | Deleted data removed within 30 days |
| Claude Free/Pro/Max | Yes — since the 2025 terms change. Opt out in account settings | Safety-flagged content reviewed | 5 years if training is on; 30 days if you opt out |
| Google Gemini app | Yes — turn off “Keep Activity” | Yes, and reviewed chats kept up to 3 years even if you delete them | 18 months by default; 72 hours with activity off |
| Microsoft Copilot free | Yes — two separate toggles | Yes, and this cannot be switched off | 18 months |
Google’s own documentation says it plainly: “Please don’t enter confidential information that you wouldn’t want a reviewer to see.” Believe them.
This is the tier most people don’t know exists, and it’s where the confusion has been costing you.
| Product | Trains? | Retention | Zero-retention? | HIPAA agreement? |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Anthropic API / Claude for Work | No — in the commercial terms | 30 days | Yes (ask sales) | Yes |
| OpenAI API / ChatGPT Enterprise, Healthcare | No — since March 2023 | Up to 30 days | Yes (approval required) | Yes — baa@openai.com |
| Google paid API / Vertex AI | No | 24-hour cache, disable-able | Yes | Yes — via Google Cloud, named products only |
| Microsoft Azure OpenAI | No — and explicitly not shared with OpenAI | Not published as of Aug 2026 | Yes (“modified abuse monitoring”) | Yes — included by default |
| Mistral (France) paid API | No | 30 days | Top plan only, by application | — |
Microsoft’s is the clearest promise of the lot. Azure’s documentation states that your prompts “are NOT available to OpenAI,” “are NOT used to improve their models,” and “are NOT used to train any generative AI foundation models without your permission.”
A model running on your own computer sends nothing anywhere. No agreement needed, because there’s no second party involved. Here’s the honest picture of what that gets you today.
Memory is everything. A Mac with 16 GB is the practical entry point; 24–32 GB is where it becomes genuinely pleasant. An 8 GB machine can technically run something, but not anything you’d enjoy using. On Windows it’s the graphics card’s memory that matters, not system RAM — a laptop with 8 GB of video memory behaves roughly like a 16 GB Mac, and one with no dedicated graphics card will be painfully slow.
As of mid-2026 the sensible choices are Gemma 4 and Qwen 3.6. Beware download charts — the most-downloaded models are still from 2024, so popularity lags quality by about a year.
Complex multi-step reasoning, factual accuracy without a source in front of them, arithmetic and dates, and — most importantly — long documents. One of these models advertising a huge context window still only retrieves about 44% of what’s buried in a long document. So “read a year of my notes and tell me what changed” is precisely the task they fail. On independent benchmarks they sit roughly 25 points below the frontier cloud models. They are a good assistant, not a brilliant one.
cloud in the tag. Type one by accident and you have just sent confidential material to a server without realising it. If privacy is the point, check every model tag.
Otherwise, local tools are clean: both Ollama and LM Studio state that prompt content never leaves your machine. They do phone home to check for updates and to search for models — that reveals which model you downloaded, never what you typed.
This one deserves its own section, because it’s where nearly everyone gets muddled, and where the answer is genuinely two different answers.
DeepSeek’s own service — their app and their API — is the highest-exposure option covered here. Their published privacy policy states that data is “directly collect[ed], process[ed] and store[d] in People’s Republic of China.” Training on your data is listed as a purpose. No retention limit is given. Their API terms contain no no-training commitment at all, and prompt caching to disk is on by default. The only way to opt out is to email them. Governments including Italy, South Korea, Australia, the Czech Republic and much of the US federal government have restricted or banned it — and in 2025 Korean regulators found it had transferred user prompts to companies in China without consent.
But “DeepSeek the model” and “DeepSeek the company” are entirely different things. The model weights are released under the MIT licence — completely open, no telemetry, no strings. Running a DeepSeek model on your own computer, or through a US host like Amazon Bedrock or Together, sends nothing whatsoever to DeepSeek the company. None of those warnings apply. Amazon’s terms state plainly that inputs are never shared with model providers.
So both of these are true, and they are not in conflict: don’t send client material to DeepSeek’s servers, and DeepSeek’s models are perfectly fine to run privately.
It is not the model that determines privacy. It is the address the model is called at.
Every AI tool is configured with a destination. Find it and read it:
https://api.deepseek.com → your words go to DeepSeek, in Chinahttps://api.anthropic.com or https://api.openai.com → to those companies, under their commercial terms — no training, ~30-day retentionhttp://127.0.0.1 or localhost → this machine. Nothing leaves.127.0.0.1 means “the computer I am sitting at.” It is the only address that guarantees privacy, and it is the same regardless of whose model is running there. A DeepSeek model at 127.0.0.1 sends nothing to DeepSeek. A DeepSeek model at api.deepseek.com sends everything.
So “I use an open-source Chinese model” tells you nothing on its own. Ask where it’s pointed. That single question resolves most of the confusion in this field.
Most of the people who need this page aren’t technologists. They’re professionals whose whole practice rests on discretion — and who have been quietly wondering whether the tool everyone’s raving about is something they’re allowed to touch.
The common thread across every profession below is the same: a duty of confidentiality doesn’t pause because the disclosure was convenient. If client material goes into a system that retains it, trains on it, or lets a stranger review it, that is a disclosure — whether or not anything bad ever comes of it.
For every one of these, the practical answer is the same and it’s genuinely reassuring: use a business or API tier with the proper agreement, or keep it local. Both are available today, neither is difficult, and one of them is free.
This profession deserves its own section, because it’s the one where the law moved fastest in 2025–2026, and most practitioners have no idea.
The federal rule (HIPAA) is straightforward. If an outside company’s servers touch protected health information, they are a “business associate” and you need a signed agreement with them — there’s no exception for “it’s only passing through.” Anthropic, OpenAI, Google and Microsoft all sign these on the right tiers. ChatGPT Business does not qualify. Consumer apps never qualify.
A local model changes the analysis, because there’s no second party to contract with — the same reason your word processor isn’t a business associate. But this removes one obligation, not all of them: the Security Rule still applies in full, meaning risk analysis, encryption and access controls remain your responsibility.
Federal guidance, meanwhile, is a vacuum: as of August 2026 there is no HHS or OCR guidance on AI and protected health information, and the proposed Security Rule update from January 2025 still isn’t final.
Separately, ten states require all-party consent to record a conversation at all — a rule that predates AI and applies before any of the above.
Ask three questions, in order.
A local model for anything containing client material. A business-tier cloud model for everything else.
Two tools, each honest about what it is. This is usually the right answer, and it costs very little.
Don’t take my word for it — and don’t ask a chatbot, because this is precisely what they’re worst at. Models are trained on old text and, when unsure, tend to answer with vague caution. That is why you may have been told “it’s all the same”: it isn’t, but a model that doesn’t know will hedge toward the gloomiest answer.
Go to the primary sources instead. Every company publishes these:
Look for three things: does it train on my data by default, how long is it kept, and will they sign a HIPAA agreement? Those three answers tell you the tier you’re on.
I set up private AI on people’s own machines — for anyone whose work holds other people’s confidences. We do it together, over video, and it’s working before we finish. Nothing leaves the room, and you don’t need to be technical.
And if you’re not ready for that — most people aren’t, and that’s the right instinct — you don’t have to do anything. You now know which tier you’re on, and that was the point of this guide.
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