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What’s Actually Private in AI

A practitioner’s guide to where your words really go.

Compiled byLily · Living Alchemy
SourcesPrimary — the companies’ own published policies
Verified1 August 2026
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Every claim below was read off an official page, not remembered by a chatbot. Policies change often — the verification date matters more than the answer.

Contents

  1. The short answer
  2. Consumer apps — you are the training data
  3. Business and API — genuinely different
  4. Local — the words never leave the room
  5. The DeepSeek confusion
  6. If you hold other people’s confidences
  7. How to choose, in one page
  8. How to check any of this yourself
01

The short answer

“Is AI private?” is the wrong question. The right question is: which tier am I on? The same company, the same model, can treat your words in completely opposite ways depending on which door you walked in through.

There are three tiers, and almost everyone confuses them.

TierTrains on your words?Safe for client material?
Consumer apps
ChatGPT Free/Plus/Pro, Claude Free/Pro/Max, Gemini app, free Copilot
Yes, by default
(you can opt out)
No
Business & API
the paid API, ChatGPT Enterprise, Claude for Work, Azure, Vertex
No, by default —
contractual, not a setting
Yes, with the right agreement
Local models
running on your own computer
No — the words
never leave the room
Yes
If you take one thing from this page

The consumer app and the business tier of the very same product are not the same product.

Anyone who tells you “it’s all the same” is wrong. And anyone who tells you “cloud means exposed” is also wrong.

02

Tier 1 — Consumer apps: you are the training data

This is the tier nearly everyone is actually using, and it is the one that disqualifies itself for client work.

ProductTrains by default?Human review?How long kept
ChatGPT Free/Plus/ProYes — opt out in Settings → Data ControlsYesDeleted data removed within 30 days
Claude Free/Pro/MaxYes — since the 2025 terms change. Opt out in account settingsSafety-flagged content reviewed5 years if training is on; 30 days if you opt out
Google Gemini appYes — turn off “Keep Activity”Yes, and reviewed chats kept up to 3 years even if you delete them18 months by default; 72 hours with activity off
Microsoft Copilot freeYes — two separate togglesYes, and this cannot be switched off18 months

Two details that surprise people

Claude changed It used to be that consumer conversations weren’t used for training. That changed with the 2025 terms update — it is now on by default, with an opt-out. If you set up Claude for someone a year ago and told them it wasn’t training on them, that advice has expired.
Opting out doesn’t cover everything On both ChatGPT and Claude, if you click thumbs-up or thumbs-down, that whole conversation can be used regardless of your setting. Safety-flagged conversations are also exempt, and are kept for years.

Google’s own documentation says it plainly: “Please don’t enter confidential information that you wouldn’t want a reviewer to see.” Believe them.

03

Tier 2 — Business and API: genuinely different, genuinely contractual

This is the tier most people don’t know exists, and it’s where the confusion has been costing you.

ProductTrains?RetentionZero-retention?HIPAA agreement?
Anthropic API / Claude for WorkNo — in the commercial terms30 daysYes (ask sales)Yes
OpenAI API / ChatGPT Enterprise, HealthcareNo — since March 2023Up to 30 daysYes (approval required)Yes — baa@openai.com
Google paid API / Vertex AINo24-hour cache, disable-ableYesYes — via Google Cloud, named products only
Microsoft Azure OpenAINo — and explicitly not shared with OpenAINot published as of Aug 2026Yes (“modified abuse monitoring”)Yes — included by default
Mistral (France) paid APINo30 daysTop plan only, by application

Microsoft’s is the clearest promise of the lot. Azure’s documentation states that your prompts “are NOT available to OpenAI,” “are NOT used to improve their models,” and “are NOT used to train any generative AI foundation models without your permission.”

The traps in this tier

ChatGPT Business is the trap tier It sounds like the professional option. It is not: OpenAI will not sign a HIPAA agreement for it, and their policy says third-party contractors may review content for abuse, with human moderation performed overseas. ChatGPT Enterprise, Healthcare and the API are the real ones.
Free developer tiers train on you Google’s free AI Studio and Mistral’s free API both use your data — their paid tiers don’t. Google’s terms say outright: “Do not submit sensitive, confidential, or personal information to the Unpaid Services.” Same company, same model, opposite policy — decided entirely by whether a card is on file.
04

Tier 3 — Local: the words never leave the room

A model running on your own computer sends nothing anywhere. No agreement needed, because there’s no second party involved. Here’s the honest picture of what that gets you today.

What you need

Memory is everything. A Mac with 16 GB is the practical entry point; 24–32 GB is where it becomes genuinely pleasant. An 8 GB machine can technically run something, but not anything you’d enjoy using. On Windows it’s the graphics card’s memory that matters, not system RAM — a laptop with 8 GB of video memory behaves roughly like a 16 GB Mac, and one with no dedicated graphics card will be painfully slow.

What to run

As of mid-2026 the sensible choices are Gemma 4 and Qwen 3.6. Beware download charts — the most-downloaded models are still from 2024, so popularity lags quality by about a year.

What they’re actually good at

What they’re bad at, honestly

Complex multi-step reasoning, factual accuracy without a source in front of them, arithmetic and dates, and — most importantly — long documents. One of these models advertising a huge context window still only retrieves about 44% of what’s buried in a long document. So “read a year of my notes and tell me what changed” is precisely the task they fail. On independent benchmarks they sit roughly 25 points below the frontier cloud models. They are a good assistant, not a brilliant one.

⚠ The single most important trap, and almost nobody mentions it Ollama, the most popular tool for running local models, now also offers cloud models — and their names sit right beside the local ones in the same list, distinguished only by the word cloud in the tag. Type one by accident and you have just sent confidential material to a server without realising it. If privacy is the point, check every model tag.

Otherwise, local tools are clean: both Ollama and LM Studio state that prompt content never leaves your machine. They do phone home to check for updates and to search for models — that reveals which model you downloaded, never what you typed.

05

The DeepSeek confusion — a category error worth understanding

This one deserves its own section, because it’s where nearly everyone gets muddled, and where the answer is genuinely two different answers.

DeepSeek’s own service — their app and their API — is the highest-exposure option covered here. Their published privacy policy states that data is “directly collect[ed], process[ed] and store[d] in People’s Republic of China.” Training on your data is listed as a purpose. No retention limit is given. Their API terms contain no no-training commitment at all, and prompt caching to disk is on by default. The only way to opt out is to email them. Governments including Italy, South Korea, Australia, the Czech Republic and much of the US federal government have restricted or banned it — and in 2025 Korean regulators found it had transferred user prompts to companies in China without consent.

But “DeepSeek the model” and “DeepSeek the company” are entirely different things. The model weights are released under the MIT licence — completely open, no telemetry, no strings. Running a DeepSeek model on your own computer, or through a US host like Amazon Bedrock or Together, sends nothing whatsoever to DeepSeek the company. None of those warnings apply. Amazon’s terms state plainly that inputs are never shared with model providers.

So both of these are true, and they are not in conflict: don’t send client material to DeepSeek’s servers, and DeepSeek’s models are perfectly fine to run privately.

The one test that settles it: look at the address

The rule

It is not the model that determines privacy. It is the address the model is called at.

Every AI tool is configured with a destination. Find it and read it:

127.0.0.1 means “the computer I am sitting at.” It is the only address that guarantees privacy, and it is the same regardless of whose model is running there. A DeepSeek model at 127.0.0.1 sends nothing to DeepSeek. A DeepSeek model at api.deepseek.com sends everything.

So “I use an open-source Chinese model” tells you nothing on its own. Ask where it’s pointed. That single question resolves most of the confusion in this field.

A related trap — routers Services like OpenRouter promise to find you the cheapest provider, and they keep their own promise well, storing nothing by default. But one layer down, if you request a DeepSeek model without specifying a provider, the cheapest endpoint is frequently DeepSeek’s own China-hosted API — the one provider on the platform that trains on data. Convenience routing quietly overrides your intentions.
06

If you hold other people’s confidential information

Most of the people who need this page aren’t technologists. They’re professionals whose whole practice rests on discretion — and who have been quietly wondering whether the tool everyone’s raving about is something they’re allowed to touch.

Not legal advice I am not your lawyer. Verify anything here with your own regulator, bar association, or counsel before relying on it. What I can tell you with confidence is where your words go; what your profession requires of you is yours to confirm.

The common thread across every profession below is the same: a duty of confidentiality doesn’t pause because the disclosure was convenient. If client material goes into a system that retains it, trains on it, or lets a stranger review it, that is a disclosure — whether or not anything bad ever comes of it.

For every one of these, the practical answer is the same and it’s genuinely reassuring: use a business or API tier with the proper agreement, or keep it local. Both are available today, neither is difficult, and one of them is free.

Therapists and counsellors — a special case

This profession deserves its own section, because it’s the one where the law moved fastest in 2025–2026, and most practitioners have no idea.

The federal rule (HIPAA) is straightforward. If an outside company’s servers touch protected health information, they are a “business associate” and you need a signed agreement with them — there’s no exception for “it’s only passing through.” Anthropic, OpenAI, Google and Microsoft all sign these on the right tiers. ChatGPT Business does not qualify. Consumer apps never qualify.

A local model changes the analysis, because there’s no second party to contract with — the same reason your word processor isn’t a business associate. But this removes one obligation, not all of them: the Security Rule still applies in full, meaning risk analysis, encryption and access controls remain your responsibility.

The part almost nobody knows Several states now regulate AI in therapy by conduct, regardless of where the model runs. A local model does not exempt you from any of these.

Federal guidance, meanwhile, is a vacuum: as of August 2026 there is no HHS or OCR guidance on AI and protected health information, and the proposed Security Rule update from January 2025 still isn’t final.

Separately, ten states require all-party consent to record a conversation at all — a rule that predates AI and applies before any of the above.

07

How to choose, in one page

Ask three questions, in order.

  1. Does confidential client material touch this at all? No → any tier is fine. Use a consumer app and enjoy it.
    Yes → consumer apps are out. Continue.
  2. Do you need the work to be excellent, or merely useful? Excellent — nuanced reasoning, long documents, clinical complexity → business/API tier with a signed agreement.
    Useful — cleaning up notes, drafting, summarising one document at a time → a local model does this well, and nothing leaves your room.
  3. What does your state say? Check this before anything else if you’re a licensed clinician. In some states the answer changes what you’re permitted to do regardless of which tier you choose.
The middle path most people never consider

A local model for anything containing client material. A business-tier cloud model for everything else.

Two tools, each honest about what it is. This is usually the right answer, and it costs very little.

08

How to check any of this yourself

Don’t take my word for it — and don’t ask a chatbot, because this is precisely what they’re worst at. Models are trained on old text and, when unsure, tend to answer with vague caution. That is why you may have been told “it’s all the same”: it isn’t, but a model that doesn’t know will hedge toward the gloomiest answer.

Go to the primary sources instead. Every company publishes these:

Look for three things: does it train on my data by default, how long is it kept, and will they sign a HIPAA agreement? Those three answers tell you the tier you’re on.

If you’d like help applying this to your own practice

I set up private AI on people’s own machines — for anyone whose work holds other people’s confidences. We do it together, over video, and it’s working before we finish. Nothing leaves the room, and you don’t need to be technical.

And if you’re not ready for that — most people aren’t, and that’s the right instinct — you don’t have to do anything. You now know which tier you’re on, and that was the point of this guide.

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Compiled by Lily  ·  Living Alchemy  ·  Sacred Tech Sessions
Verified against primary sources 1 August 2026. If you’re reading this months later, check the dates — this field moves.
If you’d like to stay near this as it moves, I write at Pneuma.
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